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What Happened in Just 5 Years
When I learned that Alex’s mother threw dishes at her and threw her down the stairs because she’s gay—that’s the day I knew I had to...


A Love Letter To My Anti-Gay Christian Friend
My friend, you are a lovely soul. You pour out the love of Jesus to strangers and those in pain. The sweet aroma of God is around you,...


Pastor Looks Up In Tears. "I Had No Idea."
Love the 'sinner,' then kick them out of church, and their family too if they don't side with you against their child. I just can’t get...


A Father’s Plea to Christian Dads of LGBTQ Children
Eight years ago, my daughter came out. I love her. Nothing will ever change that. Nothing. I stand with her. I defend her. I believe in...


Is "Hate the Sin, Love the Sinner" Really Just Hate?
Where did that phrase come from? The Bible? Nope. Jesus? Nope. But many Christians sure do spout it like it is God-inspired scripture -...


I’m the Dad of Two Queer Kids. Are You Listening?
Every time I tell our story, and I say that I have two queer daughters, I have to add a disclaimer. Usually something like, “that’s the...


11 Things I Would Tell You If You Were My LGBTQI Child
I was heartsick that a Pastor – claiming to speak for God – called his Christian teenage son ‘disgraceful, demon-possessed poison.’ Many...


LGBTQ – God is NOT Mad at You and Never Has Been
No matter what you have heard: God is not mad at you. God is not disappointed in you. Not a single little tiny bit! And I do not mean...


What Do You Do When Your Son Is Gay?
“Mom, I’m gay.” Earth-shattering words to many conservative Christian parents — tragically, many view it as right up there with, “Your...


To Christian Parents of Gay Children
"You want to shove those words back in and put the lid on. But you can't. Your child is gay. This goes against everything you've been...
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